How to live a love relationship with elegance and harmony

Have you ever thought what would a relationship harmonious pair look like? Can you imagine a relationship where everything you say, everything you do, everything that you are accepted, understood and respected ? 

A relationship where you do not feel judged or controlled, but loved and supported ? A relationship where you feel able to express more and more what you're deep in your being, without hiding anything and without compromise?

A relationship that makes you feel the joy of being on Earth and share your life experiences with another being ?

Can you imagine when you think of your romantic partner , you feel only joy and love and not a feeling of lack because it is not present or a feeling of fear or jealousy because you think you might lose?

Such a relationship can develop when you have integrated the different aspects of your being and when you have eliminated the deep and visceral fear that you live.

Ask yourself what keeps you from feeling good about your current relationship or why you do not have the relationship you want? It has nothing to do with your partner (or lack of partner). If you say, 'My partner is jealous, I 'm not free to do what I want ' or the perfect partner does not exist' or ' my partner does not respect me and what I feel ridiculed or I say ' 

if you are not able to express what you really feel or if you hide things your partner for fear of being judged, criticized , rejected, it means that you give your power to create the relationship you want out of you and you do not take responsibility for the relationship you have (or do not) .

A harmonious relationship starts with a harmonious relationship with yourself . What is the story you tell about yourself ? Do you feel that you have love for yourself, as you are now? 

Do you feel your value ? Do you think someone can love you just for who you are and not for what you do or what you give ? You refuse to be treated disrespectfully, to be controlled, dominated or manipulated by your partner? 

Or do you accept this kind of behavior not to lose the love of your life be sharing ? 

If you are afraid of being judged or criticized, if you're afraid of being alone, of not being able to meet your needs (financial or emotional ) or if you are afraid of being rejected, abandoned or hated, then you are not free to create a balanced relationship and loving couple.

That is why to redefine your relationship, you need to sign redefine yourself ! 

Learn to accept and appreciate you as you are right now . Realize that you are much more than what you think you are . And it is working to restore your relationship with your deep inner being that you will find your inner power. 

Many beliefs govern the way you experience your relationships. For example, we believe that a successful relationship is one that lasts a lifetime. 

Or a successful relationship means to create a family or do all our activities together and so on . They are not there universal laws, they are only beliefs ! 

If you begin to see each of your dating experience as you go through to get you to understand something about yourself , you will see your relationships in a whole new perspective . 

For example, when you share your life with someone who will judge and critique you, not one who is violent or respect you, ask yourself what is the reason you brought this experience and why you still stay in this relationship? Miss you love or respect for yourself ? Do you think you do not worth it ? Do you suffer from emotional or financial insecurity ? Be aware that this experience comes to you just to get you to go beyond that to become who you really are and be able to express yourself in an authentic and powerful way.

If you make a relationship no longer suits you or your partner no longer wants to continue this relationship, the transition to a different kind of relationship should be harmonious.

A harmonious relationship means that you have resolved the negative emotions generated during your relationship or your separation and you do not feel resentment, anger, sadness , regret or fear. You acknowledge that you have attracted this experience in your life to control a part of the human condition. 

Feel the unconditional love for this to be whatever experiences you have gone through together during your married life , realize that you have both chosen to live this experience before you embody. If something is not clear, always bring things to you to understand why this situation is presented to you.

In addition, if you choose to share your life with someone, why not ask a few questions ? This will help you understand your inner motivations and clarify your intent. Why do you want to live as a couple? Will he has a fear or a need behind this desire? As the fear of being alone ? Or feel that you are not complete when you're alone ? Are you afraid not to do it if you are alone, you bored? Or perhaps you sincerely want a relationship but your fears prevent you from manifesting . 

For example, you might be afraid of losing your freedom in a relationship, fear of being controlled, dominated or hurt. Realize that all these fears prevent you from developing a harmonious relationship where each partner feels totally free to be himself. It is hard to feel respected and loved when the other does not accept you as you are. 

However you must realize that for someone else to accept you as you are, you must first accept and have love for yourself . This is when you will be free of emotional blockages that your relationship will be in the image of what you think.

Also realize that there is no single model of relationship. Decide the type of relationship you want and have it in a clear picture . Remember that everything is experience and any experience you wish to be valid if it comes from a pure desire.

The key between two partners is that you agree on what you want to share together - one does not impose any way vision or desire to another. Ask yourself who you are and what you want to accomplish . 

Then ask yourself if the relationship you have or you can help you accomplish what you want? A harmonious relationship torque is an experience that you choose and should support you in your evolution.

The best way to create the relationship in your life that you want is to start writing your agreement. Do this exercise to put on paper all the aspects you would like to see in this relationship. What would you feel in this relationship? What would you share or do together? What qualities do you look for in your partner? 

Would you like to work together? Do you want to be with a partner who understands your energy and your entire being and that can be a support in your spiritual awakening , spiritual partner? Or you just want a partner to share some activities? How do you see this relationship? Of course, at the base of a deep and loving relationship , there is all the values ​​of authenticity , sharing, understanding, respect , acceptance and unconditional love .

When you understand and agree that you are the center of your reality and you are the principal, then you know you have the power to change everything in your romantic relationships by changing yourself first yourself.