Travelling to France soon ... some tips for you

The French have a reputation for being rude to foreigners. However, as is most often the case with stereotypes, this one isn't always true. Many travelers find upon traveling to France that the French are eager to share their culture and even assist lost tourists with directions or helpful information. 

The following tips can help you to make the most of a trip to France by enjoying the wonderful French culture.

Learn Some French Phrases

You don't need to learn the language if you're only on vacation, but it can't hurt to learn a few simple phrases that will help you get around while in the country. 

Picking up a pocket French-English dictionary or a small phrasebook is a good idea. If you really don't feel comfortable communicating in French, simply learn "parlez-vous anglais?" and you can proceed from there.

Attempt to Speak French Whenever Possible

Think about it logically: if you're a native English speaker without any other language background, you wouldn't expect to be able to help a traveler who approaches you in your own city speaking in another language. Similarly, it doesn't make sense to expect to be helped by a French person when you approach them in English. In France, French is the spoken language and as a foreigner, you should respect that. By making an effort to speak French, you are showing that you appreciate and respect their country.

Although the French seem laid-back, they have strong opinions. Discussing an idea can lead to a spirited debate. Avoid trying to impose your opinions on anyone or you might be in for a backlash.

Address Strangers with a Bonjour

In France, people usually address each other by saying "bonjour." It is considered rude to simply walk up to someone and start talking or ask them a question. It's kind of like saying "excuse me" before you interrupt someone. By following this behavioral practice, you are less likely to be met with a rebuff.

Follow Cultural Cues

When in a new country, it can be difficult to blend in. But reading about French customs ahead of time so that you have an idea of what to expect isn't a bad idea. One main difference between French people and Americans is that Americans speak very loudly. They aren't afraid to share their opinion, even with strangers. The French, on the other hand, are quieter. Remember that if you stubbornly cling to behavior that might be appropriate at home, you might risk making yourself stand out or even leaving a bad impression.

Learn About French Customs

French culture is very different from American culture. You will notice that French people may seem more laid-back. They speak quietly, in hushed tones. While in France, you will likely see people sitting at outdoor terraces and enjoying coffee or smoking. The pace might seem much slower. The best way to enjoy a trip to France is to try these customs yourself.

Be Polite

Above all, try to be polite, courteous, and respectful of the people and country. Remember that you are a guest in France and you should behave as one. If you show respect, you are more likely to receive respect in return. If you have a preconception that people from France are rude, it's more likely that your attitude will attract rude behavior. France has a lot to offer if you have an open mind and an accepting attitude.

Somewhere along the line, the idea that French people are "rude" became a popular stereotype. But anyone who has been to France can probably attest to the fact that this isn't true. Enjoying France means keeping an open mind, trying to speak some French, and above all, being polite. If you are open and accepting of French culture, the French are more likely to be open and accepting of you.